Sociocultural
Explanations/Theories of Mate
Selection
Role Theory
Value theory
Murstien’s Sequential Theory
Filter Theory
Reiss’ Wheel Theory
Role Theory
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The basic premise of role theory is that
couples with similar role definitions or
expectations are more likely to marry.
Value Theory
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The basic premise of value theory is that people
with similar values are more likely to select each
other as mates. The theory posits:
1. people with similar backgrounds
learn similar values;
2. interacting with people who have values
similar to your own is rewarding and
enhances communication; and
3. rewarding interaction leads to satisfaction
with your partner.
Murstien’s Sequential Theory
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This theory asserts that people go through
three stages that lead to marriage.
1. Stimulus Stage
2. Value Stage
3. Role Stage
4. Marriage
Stimulus Stage
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During this stage, the couple initiates the
relationship. Whether or not one tries to
establish a relationship with someone
depends on two things.
1. the physical, social, and
reputational attributes of a potential
partner.
2. one’s perception of his/her own
qualities or attributes.
Value Stage
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The couple explores each other’s values.
If they discover they hold similar values
on important issues, commitment
strengthens.
If their values on important issues differ,
the relationship is more likely to end.
Role Stage
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The couple eventually explores each
other’s role expectations.
If they agree about role expectations,
commitment to each other grows stronger
The more they like how the other
performs roles (social, religious, sexual,
etc.), commitment becomes even
stronger.
Filter Theory
Filter Theory assumes people go through
several “filters” that increasingly narrows
the pool of potential mates to only one.
The filters are:
1. Propinquity
2. Social Background
3. Attractiveness
4. Compatibility
5. Balance Sheet